Picture Credit : Love someone truly, you'll die daily? Let's rewrite. Love someone truly, you'll be happy daily
Eventhough I said that my love will not be 100% for someone, it does not mean that I will not love him. I will love him, whoever is my future husband is, I will do my best to make him happy.
But at the same time, I will put aside a little bit of uncertainty. A little doubt. So, if there is any bad or unfortunate things happen, the hurt will not be too deep. Bad or unfortunate things can be in any form, maybe in the form of break-up, divorce, death and etc. By seeing these, we will prepare ourselves for any disaster that will occur in the relationship and marriage.
I am saying this based on my experience. I am not trying to make a statement here or teaching others how to love. I write about love for my own perspective, based on my experience. But for sure, when I’m in love (by the way, I am right now), I will make sure that it will be a meaningful feeling eventhough it is not so-called 100% love. But who knows, maybe one day, I meet the one, maybe I will give him my whole life? My idea of love might change, one day.
By the way, how we define a meaningful love? And how we define 100% love? My break-up is the saddest experiences in my life. It changes me. 360 degrees. And the experience itself teach me about life. I never blame others even my ex, whatever happens, already happened and it already destined by God. I accept it. For everything that happened to us, there is a reason to it. As a human being, we might not understand it until the time comes.